some great resources

So,
I was personalizing my google page the other day, adding some rss feeds, when just as a hmm.. wonder if anything will come up, I typed in bdsm as my rss keyword search. Lo and Behold, I found a lovely feed from a site called bondage.com, which (like an idiot) I had never heard of before. Now everytime I open google, I get to see three little titles from the message board topics currently being discussed. I was suprised how interesting, well informed, and attractive the people who visit this site are. Some recent topics: fisting- predicament bondage, am I too kinky, fun things to do with ping pong balls, should you have to earn your mistresses training, etc. Each of these has a lot of posts with some very intersting and well informed information, and I look forward to learning all the cool new ways people dominate or submit to each other. For example: punch a small hole in a ping pong ball, fill with water, seal the hole with non-harmful epoxy, freeze. Insert into interesting orifices.
The discussion list on predicament bondage is also especially cool- there was one I definatly want to try:
have your sub laying down on his/her side. put an ankle cuff on the top leg asnd attach a rope. Thread this rope through an eye bolt in the ceiling and then run down to the other thigh. attach the rope to a string of clothespins (or a zipper, whatever). leave the rope just tight enough so that if the slaves leg gets too tired they will have to rip the clothepins off themself to put their leg down. I can't WAIT to try this.

Another cool thing I discovered from my rss feed: Fark.com is one of my favorite websites, with crazy news and funny stories. One of their feeds was: amazon.com now has fist shaped dildos for sale. I was intrigued, followed the link, and found that they did indeed, have a fist shaped dildo for sale. And for only $35! At Mr. S, which is local to where I am, they sell those for around $225. I typed in dildos, and found a virtual plethora of sex toys for amazing prices. I found a bunch of butt plugs for $2.00 each, and bought four. I got three vibrators for about $4.00 each, and a bunch of dildos for my strap on for $7-$9.00 each. I ended getting about 15 sex toys for about $51.00 thank you amazon.com!

Insignia

I've got a few session scheduled in the next few days... which is awesome, since I'm planning on buying a car on Friday, so any $ for the down payment will be much appreciated. I'm hoping to get a 2000 daewoo lanos. Does anyone know if this car is reliable? I've read good things about it, but you never know.
One of my slaves has asked that I go with him to get a scrotal piercing- he wants something that shows "ownership", which of course I like. A friend of mine is owned by Mistress Gina Grant- and she has had a little emblem made up, sort of an insignia, a stylized version of her initials- and it can be threaded through a necklace or worn as a pin. I think this is a fabulous idea, and I'd like to get something like this made up for myself. Does anyone know where I can get this done? I want it to be a little metal emblem- almost like a signet ring. I have the design all done, I just need to get it made.
This slave also mentioned that I could get a little brand made, and brand my serious slaves with my insignia. I like this idea as well- he suggested branding his balls- that would be delicious.
I'll post my insignia as soon as I get it all scanned in the way I like.

Exotic Erotic Ball

I went to the exotic erotic ball last weekend with my slave boy. Our costumes were little red riding hood and the big bad wolf. The twist was that the wolf had been "tamed" - he had a leather studded chest harness and collar with leash.
We had quite a bit of fun- espeically since we had VIP tickets. VIP tickets were not great for the reasons you would think- there was a VIP lounge of course, with its own bar, free food and soda, but the lounge itself was pretty small, essentially closed off from everyone else by a few fabric walls, like you'd find enclosing a cubicle in an office- and most of the people in VIP were not young or beautiful- they were older and not as well dressed as the rest of the people at the ball. VIP was good for a few reasons, though. For one, the free food and soda was nice- at the rest of the ball there was a half an hour line and a $5 charge for a can of soda, so that was a bonus. Another great reason was that we had in and out priveleges, which the general public didn't get. The next reason was that there was an open loading bay for performers to come in/out of that the VIP people could use to go smoke. I don't smoke, but wolf boy does, so we spent a lot of time out there. Im not really sure where everyone else was supposed to smoke, because I saw a lot of people inside smoking. The last of course, being that we could go backstage- but that wasn't actually as entertaining as you'd think it would be- you couldn't really see the show from backstage, and there was just a bunch of people getting ready for their shows. On some of the side stage backstage areas there was a better view, where we could watch from the side of the stage, which was nice.
I was a bit dissapointed by a few things- the shows this year were not good at all- the main stage had acts like circus performers and auction a porn star- the headliner was Bow Wow Wow, which I've never even heard of. Two years ago it was digital underground. Secondly, there were signs all over that said "no nudity"- which is ridiculous! Isn't that the whole point of the exotic erotic? Thirdly, there was very little BDSM influence. The BDSM stage this year was small and out of the way. I did see one rather talented top with a bullwhip, but that's about it. Not that many topless girls or slaves wandering around.
I got my tickets for free, so it was overall a good experience, but if I had paid (especially for VIP tickets) I would have been dissapointed.

here again

So..
haven't blogged in a while.. I've been SOO busy.. my birthday was on the 25th and I had quite a weekend with that, espeically that being on the same day as folsom. I went to a lovely party held by a friend of mine and got to do some networking with some local dommes- I met Natasha Strange, Gina Grant, Raven Simone, and Mistress Skye from New York.
This last weekend I went to Massachusets for a wedding. I had been planning on working for a day in Boston but I ended up having the trip from hell- everything that could go wrong did. I had spent around 20 hour sewing this beautiful dress to wear to the wedding (see pic) and I didn't even get to make it to the wedding :( First they gave me crap about my id being expired (by a few days), then they did a full search of me going through security, our flight was delayed by 2 hours so we missed our connection, they screwed up our connecting flights and tried to put us on two different flights, then they booked us for 2 further connection, we finally get to hartford and the wedding was over. Since we were late getting in the car rental place was closed, but it took us a $30 cab ride there and a $30 cab ride back to figure that out. We're sitting at the airport, trying to rent a car, and EVERTHING is closed or completely booked. We are tired, we've been on the road for about 12 hours now.. and we finally take a cab ride, costing us $60- not getting a rental car. The bride gave us bad directions, and after driving around in circles for a half an hour the cab driver drops us off IN THE RAIN at a convenience store. Finally our friends pick us up and we get to hang out with the brides until they have to leave for their honeymoon, in about an hour. Other friends of our offer to let us stay in their room, since we have no car and all the hotels are booked. It was a very stressful trip, and I am glad to be home.

I'm hoping to domme soon, I could use the stress release :)

One interesting thing- they re-released garbage pail kids- remember those? I used to love them, but my parents wouldn't let me buy them when I was younger. I'm going to start collecting them- here is what was in my first pack:

Prostate Massage

I've been trying to find out if "prostate massage" is actually as orgasmic as some sources seem to say it is. I have never personally had any luck with it, and I haven't met anyone with a credible story.
BUT- it does sound pretty cool- I'd love to have some success with it, and I"m sure all my little slave boy toys would appreciate it as well.

I had a slave do some research about it.. and here are two decent websites with some medical cross section drawing with all the parts correctly labeled.. which makes me think that it MIGHT be possible.. except the lady who wrote the article has awesomely bad 80's hair, which makes me suspicious again...

Has anyone had luck with prostate massage? Any tips or stories you can share?
I'll post the links in a bit.

BTW: another awesome T-shirt someone IMed me: if you know what this is referecing you ROCK

http://www.bustedtees.com/shirts/dysentery

I'm back

Well,
I arrived home from Minnesota Yesterday. I had a fabulous, if busy, trip. The whole time I was there it rained-thunderstorms and lightning, but it was soothing, in an odd way. I kind of miss those storms that make you afraid you'll wake up in a foot of water- or driving through a hail storm at 4 am thinking that they'll break through your windshield. And the whole time I was there, everyone kept asking me how I could live in California- and wasn't I terrified of earthquakes? No one seemed to notice the irony.

No play time in MN, alas. Alex and I did make it out to the barn, but it was pretty run down, with holes in the floor and hay and dust everywhere, so the thought of getting naked seemed like a pretty bad idea. After a few minutes of looking around, I just wanted to leave, my allergies were bothering me so much.

I got drunk a few times- didn't do anything terribly naughty. Well, Ok, one thing. We stayed at my mom's house and my little sister still lives there- since she has a queen size bed she let us stay there, while she took the guest room. She gave us one condition- no sex in my bed! We laughed.. and while laying in bed commented how funny it would be if we masturbated in her bed instead.. so we did :) I took some pictures, telling Alex that I would email them to her later with a note that says, "thanks for letting us use your bed, and don't worry, we didn't have sex in it!" he he..
Can't wait to do some sessions :) It's been a week and I miss beating little boys.

Toys again

i've been trying to find some new restraints that are quick and easy- since in my sessions I like to do a lot of really restrictive bondage- but as people are paying me for my time, I don't want to waste a lot of it by doing complicated rope bondage. While I love rope bondage and wish I had more time to do it-it usually takes me at least 20 minutes to do something effective, and another 10 to untie it- so instead I'm looking for some premade leather type restraints that just clip together in a few places for fast bondage. Here are a few things I've found that I like so far:

http://www.mr-s-leather.com/cgi-bin/mr-s/SL360.html?id=94AZ8dBI
this is a nice little behind the back wrist restraint system that goes down between the legs to attach to the cock and balls :)

I always say I'm going to get one of these but then I never do: a four way hogtie clip:
http://www.mr-s-leather.com/cgi-bin/mr-s/SL350.html

I really loved these restraints- they're called "puppy" restraints because they force your slave into a puppy position- he can crawl on all fours, or beg, but he can't stand up and walk. I definatly have to get these:
http://www.mr-s-leather.com/cgi-bin/mr-s/SL268.html


I'm still looking-
definatly going to get the hogtie set this week.. But I"d like to find some more creative restraints- or make my own.